Dance with the Wind

 

We  always dreamed  of a better  life after we get married, have a baby, and raise them well. However, we're frustrated that the kids aren't old enough, and we'll be more content when they are.  Later, we're dismayed  that we have teenagers to deal with. We'll certainly be happy when they're out of that stage soonest.
We tell ourselves that our life will be complete when our spouse gets his or her act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a vacation, and become self sufficient  when we retire.
However, the truth is, there's no better time to be happier than the present, live  for today for tomorrow may never comes.
When do we say that we have enough and is ready to retire?
How much is enough?
Our life will always be filled with challenges.
It's best to admit this to yourself and decide to be happy anyway.
To have enough is relative.
One of my favorite quotes comes from Alfred D. Souza, is  "For a long time it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life. However, there was always some obstacle in the way, something has to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life."
This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness.
Happiness is the way.
So, treasure every moment that you have and treasure it more because you shared it with someone special, special enough to spend your time with...and remember that time waits for no one.
Stop waiting... there is no better time than right now to be happy.
Happiness is a journey, not a destination.
Learn to dance with the wind and sail through life's uncharted courses with an open heart and a big SMILE, do count your blessings, 
and stay connected with friends.