As we go through life, familiarity can sometimes seem like permanence. Oftentimes, the more comfortable we are with someone, the less effort we put into our time with them.
It was seven months ago, when we learnt that my brother in law was diagnosed with stage 4 pancreatic cancer with metastasis to the lungs and liver. We had the chance to visit him last November 2012, after his 6th chemo session. We thought he was doing well with the treatment, because he was looking good and eating well. A month later, the bad news came of his deteriorating state and eventual passing. In that transient state between there and there, I’ve learned a lot about what it really means to be here—to recognize that everything changes and appreciate it all while it lasts. Moments are really so fleeting.
The reality is that nothing permanent in this life, each moment is a gift so spend it well. Occasionally, we may take each other for granted but every moment we have together is valuable. Whether or not it feels that way is entirely up to us.
“Before someone’s tomorrow has been taken away, cherish those you love, appreciate them today.” -Michelle C. Ustaszeski
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