Because that's Life

Life consists of twist and turns..Sometimes people come into your life, and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson, or to help you figure out who you are or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be – a roommate, a neighbor, a professor, a friend, a lover, or even a stranger – but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.....

Top Eleven (11) Life's Lessons Learned

1. It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, But what is 
more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

2. A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

3. The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

Ten Mantras to Age gracefully

Make life at 40, 50, 60 and even after retirement pleasant and enjoyable. A food for thought on how to treasure the elders years of wisdom and intelligence at its best:

1. Never say ‘I am aged': There are three ages, chronological, biological, and psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is determined by the health conditions and the third is how old you feel you are. While we don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with good diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic thinking can reverse the third age.

Just be who you are

In our attempts to be liked and loved by others , we tried to explore means and ways that made us a different person instead of being truly who we are. Don't try to be  different, who you don't want to be, simply to please others. It's alright to make someone an inspiration or a role model, but never underestimate yourself

Don't imitate others. Observe them, learn from them, but don't try to be like them.

Eight (8) Ways to Make Sex in Marriage Exciting

Marriage is the union of two hearts and soul, and most people expect that the intensity of their sex lives will soar to a greater heights after they marry. However, the sad truth is: some relationship curves, goes inversely proportional with time. But this should not be the case; marriage doesn’t necessarily mean the death of an steamy encounter. Really, it will take some effort from both of you to keep the fire burning as the years go by. Here are some tips to keep it "red hot":

Use Sex as an Antidote to Marriage Ruts

There will be times in your marriage when careers, family, kids, friends, hobbies and other important tasks will pack your schedule and get in the way of maintaining a good relationship. There will be periods when the two of you are not communicating well and don’t seem to be connecting with each other. When you experience these ruts in your relationship, don’t let sex go by the wayside. Use the time you have together wisely by getting frisky. If your marriage is experiencing a dip, it’ll fall even further if the two of you don’t connect sexually. Instead of abandoning your bedroom activities at the first sign of trouble, use sex to get back on track.

Be Imaginative

Yes, she is the love of your life -- the woman you chose to spend your days with until you both grow old. She is the mother of your children (if you have them) and a domestic goddess that runs your household and your family while still succeeding in a career and myriad other duties.

In order to make married sex better, try to stop thinking of her as your adorable and adoring wife when the two of you get frisky. Allow your imagination to run wild; think of her as a dirty sexpot and encourage her to play the part. Tap into the intense attraction you have for each other and forget that you’re husband and wife.

Communicate Openly 

It is imperative to be HONEST to each other in all aspects as much as possible because neither of you is a mind reader. Discuss things with an open mind.

Allow each other to Bloom and Shine

Take every opportunity to grow and enhance your potentials as an individuals. Do not restrict your wife's growth nor be intimidated by her achievements. Instead be proud and supportive of her endeavors and vice versa. 

Make Your Room Exclusive

Having a better sex life with your wife/husband requires that you both take a step away from your everyday lives and focus on each other. If you are parents, this means that you’re going to have to designate some space in your house for adult-only activities. To this end, consider making your bedroom a no-go area for your children. The kids usually have the run of the house, but if they know that mom and dad’s room is off-limits, you’ll be more likely to have time and space to yourselves on a regular basis. Your bedroom will become a haven where it’s all about the two of you.

Stay Away from Pajamas

It’s a well-known fact that many people -- men and women alike -- feel it’s OK to let themselves go once the wedding vows are exchanged. Unfortunately, this is a one-way street to problems with your sex life. If you no longer bother to put in the effort to make yourself attractive to your spouse, she could lose interest in being intimate with you. Keep the sex hot by maintaining your looks. This means no flannel pajamas in bed. Slip under the sheets wearing what he thinks you look sexy in, whether it’s the T-shirt he loves to cuddle up to, just your boxers or nothing at all. Don’t come to bed covered up from head to toe. Hopefully this will encourage her to put some imagination into her sleepwear as well.

Forget the Frequency Limits / Rules

There is no standards to follow as to how many, where and when it should be done. It is the fulfillment that counts and the numbers don't matter a lot.

The Best Thing About It

The major benefit of having sex in a long-term relationship is that you should be able to trust your partner and not be afraid to share all aspects of your sexuality with him. Get your fantasies out in the open, push your boundaries and create the right environment in order to keep exploring sex with the woman/man you plan to grow old with.

Reference: about,shine

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Beauty Never Fades

God determines who walks into your life..... it's up to you to decide who you  will let walk away, stay, and  refuse to let go....but when there is nothing left but God, that is when you find out that God is all you need....  Pray for the signs that will you give Peace of Mind ,  free your soul and make your heart smile again!  It takes so much "Courage and Discernment" to let go of someone special. Just  walk with God through life.

Happy Birthday

For someone whose love, kindness and generosity is amazing.
You are indeed a TREASURE that I will never be without .
I have to make certain that I can keep what you and I 
have and are still building with each passing day. 

Today is your special day, stretch for a sunbeam...
Reach for a star... Go for a beautiful dream.
Pick out some wishes, no matter how far,
Cherish some hopes that are dear to your heart.
Celebrate this day, and embrace all the reasons to believe in wishes again. They are not just for children, but also for those who remained young  at "heart''...

Wishing you a Happy Birthday Daddy.....We love you♥♥♥

The Qualities of A Seafarer's Wife

What are the qualities that a Seafarer seeks in a woman to be his wife, lover, friend and mother of his children? Is it beauty or brains? It has been said that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...however, lasting beauty and brains seldom come into one. Intelligence goes deeper than attractiveness or beauty, ever doubt it?

Discovering the gift of writing

Writing is a gift for the chosen few, some discovered their talents early on in life, but in my case, it was at a later stage as I breached my golden years.
While studying in the University, there were no manifestations that I can write creatively. As an Engineering student, we were more inclined into the mastery of technical report writing. The style of which is relatively different than what I am doing in my blogs and articles.

To A Seafaring Dad on Father's Day

A Father's Day Tribute to the man in command of Maersk Visby as of this writing..

Our country celebrates Father's Day every third Sunday of June, and this year it falls on June 19. During this time  of the year, the king of our home is given a treat and showered with gifts. However, because he is onboard,  let this be an opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth asking himself, some of life's finest questions on the very important role of fatherhood in the molding , nurturing, and shaping of our only child's being. Conversely, for our son too, a time to assess as to how his  father had fared in his eyes as a DAD. 

To Papa with Love on Father's Day

You may not be perfect and  an ideal father, and You may have thought I  that I didn't see, nor I hadn't heard, all the Life lessons  you had taught to me. However, I got every word of it.
Perhaps, you thought that I missed it all, during the times that we'd grown apart. Keeping my distance and silence was not a revenge, nor a prodigal daughter's  vengeance. It was my way of respecting your choice. It's because I know that as a Father,
you always wanted what's BEST for your children.

A Last Glimpse of an Unrequited Love

The last few nights, you pop into my dreams. I just can’t get rid of you like you got rid of me. Days continue to pass. Stars continue to shine. Why do I have tears in my eyes when you were  NEVER mine?

Memories of South Africa Slideshow

Memories of South Africa Slideshow: "TripAdvisor™ TripWow ★ Memories of South Africa Slideshow ★ to Durban, Cape Town and Johannesburg. Stunning free travel slideshows on TripAdvisor"

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Maersk Visby Social Welfare Activities Slideshow

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Enjoy Life

We meet at a time, when a new phase of our life has just begun..

When we were only young ladies  searching for our place under the sun,

That enchanting smile in your pretty face.

Caught the hearts of our batch mates in awe;

but all they can do was sigh and wish!

On Our 23rd Wedding Anniversary

Dearest Honey Bunch,

Thank You very much for being the love of my life, and the echo of my soul.  For accepting my past, and for sharing your life and dreams with me, I will forever be grateful with the love that I found in you. Thank you for the past twenty three (23) of  making me feel the warmth of a true love, your tender and loving care, unwavering loyalty and never ending passion. Thank you for bringing out the best in me and recognizing and enhancing my identity as a woman, as a person, and as a human being. Thank you for loving me for what I am, and for patiently bearing with my mood swings and my carino brutal. Thank you for being a wonderful and loving husband, an exciting lover, and a true friend.... my best friend! 

A Very Touching Story

Sharing the beautiful story from an Unknown Author...

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.

He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision. 

The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

Crossroads

Life is like a road and when we are at the cross roads,  luck  becomes a case where preparation meets inspiration.We have all the choices to take. To carry on with the road we know, even though doing so can some times be bad and unhealthy for us or we can take a new turn , not knowing where it will take us in our lives but knowing deep within ourselves that the new road is where we wish to be.
After sometime, being on our new road and being happy and content with the way things , our test will come, by trying to see if where we are going is indeed where we really wish to be. If the old road where we were unhappy and discontented and where it did not serve our greater good.  We can always put our faith and trust in the Divine knowing that even though we cannot see where we are going or who we will become that this is indeed the right path for us and indeed our instinct tells us that. We know in our hearts that a greater force is at hand guiding us with each and every step that we take.

Always take the path that leads to the happiness of your heart you KNOW which one that will be. ~ Carole Anne O'Brien

The Soul of my Heart

As I traveled down the roads of life.
You have driven my darkest fears away.
You brought sunshine and bright smiles into my lonely face.
You made me bloom into a precious rose
and created a rainbow to my soul.
Sometimes, when the clouds of doubt started to cast in me,
You simply hold my hand and consoled me
that as the soul of my  heart, 

there is  nothing to fear,

whether far or near.
To have  faith in  you,

for I will always be inside your heart.

It doesn't tell lies,  
that's why true love never dies.

Making memorable moments
for yourself is not a big thing. 
But being the reason behind someone else's 
memorable moment is an everlasting feeling 
and to you that's the essence of  your being!  :)

Fated to Love You

In celebration of our forthcoming wedding anniversary on May 30, 2011, I am re-posting the link to my published article as a tribute to the love of my life...
A love story that transcends distance and time (1) - Pinoy Abroad - GMA News Online - Latest Philippine News

A love story that transcends distance and time (2) - Pinoy Abroad - GMA News Online - Latest Philippine News
A love story that transcends distance and time (3) - Pinoy Abroad - GMA News Online - Latest Philippine News

Happy 23rd Wedding Anniversary!!! I love you more each passing day...